There is something sexy about a man who is open to change things up in the bedroom and willing to try new things, especially when his lady can take the lead. Whether it is something kinky and rough or a night of pure intimacy and love making, there is no harm in creating a new experience for that sexy someone in your life. So thanks to a little exploration we have gathered a handful of our favorite moves out there and interpreted them in our own little naughty way to help spice things up in between the sheets! Be creative in how you perform these moves or even add a little something extra to make it your own. Present these moves to your lover and we guarantee you’ll be in for an experience you won’t forget.

1. Put on red or black (chose a sexy shade), over-the-knee boots and nothing else. Shove him against the wall, counter, car…wherever gets you hot, gently tug on his hair, and whisper, “Tonight, you are going to do whatever I say”. You can follow that with any form of punishment you’d like if he doesn’t listen. Look at as a chance to get your way, ‘or else’ opportunity.

2. Surprise your man by keeping him in suspense. Try blindfolding him with his tie or any piece of his clothing or yours and lead him to a spot in the house or office to somewhere you two haven’t gotten down and dirty before. For him, the fact that you’re in total control, is blinded and has no idea where he is makes this move ultra hot and steamy.

3. Direct your guy by pointing with one finger to sit down (this can be anywhere) without saying one word. Turn as if you are walking away from him and seductively begin to take off your thong and use it to tie his hands together. Turn back face forward to him and proceed with a lap dance, teasing him with what he desires to have. Throw in a sensual kiss or lick on his body here and there just to make him crave you even more.

4. Create a naughty scenario giving you and your man the opportunity to role play. Chose a character where you have to call him Mr. or Sir, Etc. Make sure you are the submissive one. If you forget to refer to him by his appropriate title you get a naughty spanking for being a bad girl. Or try having your guy refer to you as the dominant (switch roles), and the same rules will apply to him. Either way it’s a win-win for you both. And add any sex move you want along with this tease to really spice up the thrill.

5. For a little rough house with your lover, slit a small hole in the crotch of a sexy pair of panties, something that can be easily ripped. Initiate the four play and once things start heating up, put his hand down there…exactly where he can feel the tear and in a low whisper demand he rip off your panties and enter inside you. This will definitely bring out the animalistic side to that naughty man in your life.

6. And lastly a favorite! Go down on your man, this is a game of “what I say goes”! Under your strict orders he can’t climax until he has your okay to do so. The closer he gets to releasing himself, steadily pull away and then start again at whatever pace you see fit, you pick the tempo and position. And keep in mind, this will be just as awesome when he does it to you too –creating anticipation for you both resulting in an extremely sexy orgasm you equally won’t forget.

So no matter who you share these moves with just remember to have fun with it! Don’t take things too seriously and feel free to add your own twist to things. The best way to spice up any love life is change, so keep these moves in mind next time you’re ready to turn up the heat sexually. There’s no harm in trying something new!